The other day, I was thinking of an ex who was not only my longest relationship but was also the only girl I've ever truly loved. It took a while to get over her, but I eventually did. When people give the cliche advice that time heals all wounds, they are absolutely right. I never would have imagined just a year ago that I would eventually be so comfortable around her again. I still massively care about her and hope only good things to come to her, but I no longer feel the same feelings of love I used to have.
Things That I Miss About Being in a Relationship:
Having someone to go do things with all the time:
I didn't realize how much I missed this aspect until it was gone. It's so great having someone you can always ask to go eat lunch,watch a movie or even just be lazy together. I will never take that for granted ever again.
Showing off my girl:
Not like treating her like an object of mine, but just being able to say to someone, "Hey, see that gorgeous, intelligent, funny girl over there? It makes me feel like one of the luckiest guys in the world.
Being able to act a fool with someone:
In other words, being allowed to expose myself in ways I wouldn't around others. Singing at the top of my lungs or being super cheesy with a girl, completely not caring how ridiculous we sound, is such a refreshing feeling. If I ever mention in the future about things that I take great pleasure in that are the simpler things in life, mark this down as one of them.
Having an excuse to be my hopeless romantic self:
I don't care what people say about chivalry and being a gentlemen nowadays, but I'm doing my best to keep it alive and well. I'm the type of guy that watches romantic comedies, sees all those meet-cute situations and says "who says those things can't happen in real life?" When I had a girlfriend, it gave me the excuse to go all out at times, whether it be surprising my girl with flowers and her favorite soda during a particular stressful time. It can take a lot of effort, but the end result of seeing my girl genuinely surprised and ecstatic makes it all worth it.
Finally, one thing I miss the most:
Simply, the feeling of falling in love.
